the essensial
November 29th, 2007 by unxploredjust wanna share it with you..
"give me the rice and I’ll eat today, or teach me how to grow rice and I’ll eat forever"
[Mahatma Gandhi]
just wanna share it with you..
"give me the rice and I’ll eat today, or teach me how to grow rice and I’ll eat forever"
[Mahatma Gandhi]
"I dont have car or house, even my friends mock me"
"I am not as tall as her, eventough I really want to join with that modelling club"
"I cannot speak fluently, that’s why i lose that opportunity… they even didn;t give me a minute to talk!"
"Can she receive me just the way i am? because nothing i could be proud of myself in front of her"
Have you the same thought as them?
Have you ever feel so bad about yourself like them?
Friends, you are you. The most important things is "You believe and proud of yourself". No matter how hard the condition you face on, no one have the right to look down on you when you are proud and believe in yourself.
You are not doing something disturbing or annoying others, so why you look down at yourself? You still have many things which others don’t have and can’t do.
Each of us have different chance, skill, opportunity but for sure, the golden times will come for you soon.
Be patient and always learn to be the best.
Never let yourself to live in worries because it will change NOTHING.
Let say it again together and louder, "I believe in myslef!"
Good! take a deep breath and have a great day always friends.
Lifechain is periodic of life that we have been, on doing and will get through. Everybody without an exception have it. But, your lifechain is different compare to mine, your parents is different compare to your love ones and so on, eventough sometimes it seems the same, but when you look further, you will get what I mean.
Childhood is the beginning period of a person’s lifechain. People said, childhood is the most beautiful, fun and comfort period of life. We can play without thinking what we will eat for that day. We just trust our parents without any fear. Some of us have bad experience during childhood and it affect a lot to our personality and character in the future.
Teenage, fun and challenge period. Most of us are seeking for self identity and also wanna try so many things that new and interesting for us. Here, we must really careful to choose and sort what things we let it happened. What is already happened, you cannot change it, but you can learn from it to be better. It’s good for trying to observe and think about what we wanna be in the future at this time period.
Mature is the period which all of us enter the real world. Working, sosializing, handling and controlling are full skill that being develop and needed in this time period. Rethinking so many dream and plan always happened during this time. You decide to marry, to work at company or be an entrepreneur. Buy a house or travel around the world. It’s all your choice and once ou have choose, do your best to do it.
Never regret for what happened to you. If it is bad things, then it mean you should learn to be better. If it is good things, then you should keep it and maintain it.
Old, well… on this period, we dont set any kind of dream anymore. We just being thankful for what we already passed during our life. I cannot tell you much about this ‘coz i haven’t been there. I saw it from my parents and i learn much from them.
So friends, never regret even one day of our life. Good day gives us happiness. Bad day gives us experience. Both are essential to life.
Lifechain is God’s gift for each of us.
We make them cry who care for us,
We cry for those who never care for us,
and we care for those who never cry for us.
This is the truth of life, it’s strange but True.
Once you realise this, it’s never too late to change.
Time is like a river.
You cannot touch the same water twice,
because the flow that has passed will never pass again.
Enjoy every moment of your life..
This thought is tickling my mind. So many advertising nowadays campaign about the message "just to be yourself". In the contrary, so many of them, especially cosmetic products or food or clothes, just try to brainwash our mind and told us to be looks like the idol/the stars.
The truly is, everybody was born in their own uniqueness, so no need to be somebody else looks like. The best one is be ourself. Of course, in some case, we need to learn to be better from others. For example in attitude, way of thinking, character. But still, everything we learn from it, will integrade into our way of life and no one in this world has the same way of life.
It is the same when come to our faith. We no need to e somebody else just to show our faith. Everybody has his/her own story in walking this life with God. dont need also to looks great then we borrow another’s story to upgrade our level. we have our own time as they have theirs. Then… Sharing your faith meant just being yourself too.
so be happy and "just be yourself"
hv great weekend everybody
Do you watch American film TV series "Heroes" recently? yes, i am and the story are so interesting, that you have watched one seri, you will cannot help to watch and watch the next one.
At the end of "Volume One", seems that they want to elevate the message of the film , so they put it so clear and intense. There are 2 sentences that slapped me and woke up my mind and heart. For what they are trying to communicate with us with that message are true and almost being forgotten by us in this century.
First, when the girl "Claire" said to his father "Mr. Bennet" when the father asked her to go home. She said "You forgot that our home was burned out". Then the father answered her "Yes, but our home is everywhere our family is together"
Second, while Peter, powerful man that take big part on this heroes circular, was doubt to himself, whether he could save the people, save the world. He was blacked out and time traveled to the past. He met with the person that he respect so much and admired. That old wise man said "A hero is the one who have the heart with ability to love unconditionaly…, because at the end of everything, what is matter is love".
Friends, deep inside our heart, there are a hero. The problem is, when will we wake him up and make it come out of our heart? Do we still love each others without any reason, any purpose to get in return? In this savage world, would we be part of the heroes…
Sometimes in this life, we forget to appreciate the precious things we have. Don’t know it because of the daily routines activities that make us like that or because of we never give thanks for it. Instead of it, we need people around us. They will open our eyes, when we are also willing to listen to. Otherwise it useless. Open your heart, open your mind and give thanks
BESARNYA PENGHARGAAN
Seorang penjual daging
mengamati suasana sekitar tokonya. Ia sangat terkejut melihat seekor
anjing datang ke samping tokonya. Ia mengusir anjing itu, tetapi anjing
itu kembali lagi.
Maka, ia menghampiri anjing itu dan melihat ada
suatu catatan di mulut anjing itu. Ia mengambil catatan itu dan
membacanya, "Tolong sediakan 12 sosis dan satu kaki domba. Uangnya ada di
mulut anjing ini."
Si penjual daging melihat ke mulut anjing itu
dan ternyata ada uang sebesar 10 dollar di sana. Segera ia mengambil uang
itu, kemudian ia memasukkan sosis dan
kaki domba ke dalam kantung plastik dan
diletakkan kembali di mulut anjing itu. Si penjual daging sangat terkesan.
Kebetulan saat itu adalah waktu tutup tokonya, ia menutup tokonya dan
berjalan mengikuti si anjing.
Anjing tersebut berjalan menyusuri
jalan dan sampai ke tempat penyeberangan jalan. Anjing itu
meletakkan kantung plastiknya, melompat dan menekan tombol
penyeberangan,
kemudian menunggu dengan sabar dengan kantung plastik di mulut, sambil
menunggu lampu penyeberang berwarna hijau. Setelah lampu menjadi hijau, ia
menyeberang sementara si penjual daging mengikutinya.
Anjing tsb
kemudian sampai ke perhentian bus, dan mulai melihat "Papan informasi jam
perjalanan ". Si penjual daging terkagum-kagum melihatnya. Si
anjing melihat "Papan informasi jam perjalanan " dan kemudian duduk
disalah satu bangku yang disediakan. Sebuah bus datang, si anjing
menghampirinya dan melihat nomor bus
dan kemudian kembali ke tempat duduknya.
Bus lain datang. Sekali lagi bus lainnya datang. Sekali lagi si
anjing menghampiri dan melihat nomor busnya. Setelah melihat bahwa bus
tersebut adalah bus yang benar, si anjing naik. Si penjual daging,
dengan kekagumannya mengikuti anjing itu dan naik ke bus tersebut.
Bus berjalan meninggalkan kota, menuju ke pinggiran kota. Si anjing
Melihat pemandangan sekitar. Akhirnya ia bangun dan bergerak ke depan bus, ia
berdiri dengan 2 kakinya dan menekan tombol agar bus berhenti. Kemudian ia
keluar, kantung plastik masih tergantung di mulutnya. Anjing tersebut
berjalan menyusuri jalan sambil dikuti si penjual daging. Si anjing berhenti
pada suatu rumah, ia berjalan menyusuri jalan kecil dan meletakkan kantung
plastik pada salah satu anak
tangga.
Kemudian, ia mundur, berlari dan
membenturkan dirinya ke pintu. Ia mundur, dan kembali membenturkan
dirinya ke pintu rumah tsb. Tidak ada jawaban dari dalam
rumah, jadi si
anjing kembali melalui jalan kecil, melompati tembok kecil dan berjalan
sepanjang batas kebun tersebut. Ia menghampiri jendela dan membenturkan
kepalanya beberapa kali, berjalan mundur, melompat balik ia menunggu di
pintu.
Si penjual daging melihat seorang pria tinggi besar membuka
pintu dan mulai menyiksa anjing tersebut, menendangnya, memukulinya, serta
menyumpahinya.
Si penjual daging berlari untuk menghentikan
pria tersebut, "Apa yang kau lakukan ..? Anjing ini adalah anjing yg
jenius. Ia bisa masuk televisi untuk kejeniusannya."
Pria itu
menjawab, "Kau katakan anjing ini pintar …?
Dalam minggu ini sudah dua kali
anjing bodoh ini lupa membawa kuncinya ..!"
Mungkin hal serupa pernah
terjadi dalam kehidupan Anda. Sesuatu yang bagi Anda kurang memuaskan,
mungkin adalah sesuatu yang sangat luar biasa bagi orang lain.
Yang
membedakan hanyalah seberapa besar penghargaan kita. Pemilik anjing tidak
menghargai kemampuan si anjing dan hanya terfokus pada kesalahannya
semata,
sehingga menganggapnya anjing yang bodoh. Sebaliknya, sang pemilik
toko menganggap anjing tersebut luar biasa pintarnya karena mampu berbelanja
sendirian.
Mungkin kita tidak pernah menyadari bahwa setiap harinya
kita menghadapi pilihan yang sama. Kita punya dua pilihan dalam menghadapi
hidup ini, apakah hendak
mengeluh atas berbagai hal yang kurang memuaskan,
atau bersyukur atas berbagai karunia yang telah kita terima.
Semuanya terpulang pada diri Anda sendiri.
Tuhan telah
mengkaruniai Anda dengan 86.400 detik per
hari. Sudah adakah yang Anda
gunakan untuk mengucap
syukur?
There are many ways to express the word "love". Musicion use their beautiful note and tone to describe it, while painter use the canvas and ink to express it. And this is quiet interesting while a biologist explain that he is in love. I got this from special person. and when I read it, without my permission, a big smile rise on my face, so hopefully it could give same effect for you. hehe…
" And by a series of biochemical reaction through neurotransmitter in the
synaptic of my brain cells, I have a crush on you instantaneously "
Have nice day for you friends!
In my morning devotion I read from Luke 19, when people -pharisees and Sadducees- asked Jesus a question to test Him.
On that time, Israel live under Roma government, that’s why they use money with Caesar picture in it.
They tried to trap Him by question, do they need to pay government which at those time mean Romans.
But the wisdom of God is the wisdom more than anything people could think of… (I always got amaze and excited when read His answer. :))
He told them "please bring me a coin". They brought a coin and gave him. He continued asking them "Whose picture you see in that coin?" "Picture of Caesar" they answered. "Then give what you should give to Caesar and give what you should give to God"
All of people were silent for moments… They were amazed with His answer, because they never hear and see the one like Him before.
What I learn from it is.. Give what you should give to the one who have right to receive it. If you workin the company, then give the company what they should receive from you. If you join with the organization then do your part best with what organization need from you. And if you live with your family.. then give your parents, your sister and your brother, your husband and your wife, your kids what they should receive from you.
Dont expect more.. because when you did your part, you will just amaze with what those people will do for you
So.. whenever you always do it in balance, then you will find that your life more brighter than ever..
Have great weekend for you everybody!